Follow the Leader

Why is being yourself never good enough? Why is it that everyone is trying to be someone else or just something they are not? Think about what we do we see something we want because it looks good on someone else. We think by buying that product that we can be close to the appearance of that person. We compare ourselves to unrealistic goals that are so far from reality that it is not funny. We have an expectation that by going to the gym in the new shoes or in a shirt that you saw on a manikin or a ad, that's what your going to look like. I think the thing that bugs me about it the most is that its not just people are getting new things, do what makes you happy i guess, but don't hold tie your happiness to what the latest and newest thing is. I feel that people get so wrapped up i looks and what they have on that it sickens me. What happen to what you grew up with the morals of its what the person has on the inside that count. where the fuck did that go, when leggings came out we said hell with that, or is it when we start to date that we stop bringing our morals with us. I understand that women have it a million times worse then men and that's an understatement, but really why care. The idea is to look good and we think stars look good and that's what most of people strive for. Then you look at stars who are going on crazy diets trying to get back to the birth weight and others who are killing themselves for their look. Who are they trying to be like?Do you see what i am saying? This is a circle, there looking and trying to be someone else, this game that were all in and its to the point where no one can tell where the start or finish is. Who is following who? So take a step back and do what makes you happy, dress the way you want and don't worry about the person next to you because if your you then, they will probably want to be like you too because your confident.